Step 1 · NoticeSigns an aging parent may need more help
The early signs to watch for at home, in health, memory, mood, money and driving, and what to do when you notice a pattern.
Read the guide →When a parent starts to need more help, the hardest part is often knowing where to begin. These guides are arranged in the order most families need them: noticing the signs, deciding what to do first, having the conversations early, and knowing what to do if a health emergency arrives. Start with the step that matches where you are today.

Step 1 · NoticeThe early signs to watch for at home, in health, memory, mood, money and driving, and what to do when you notice a pattern.
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Step 2 · DecideA calm, practical guide to the first steps: what to check, who to call, and what can wait.
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Step 3 · TalkThe questions to ask while everyone is calm: health wishes, documents, decision-makers, money and daily life.
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Step 4 · PrepareWhat to bring, what to ask the care team, what to write down, and how to handle discharge and follow-up.
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Who to callStart with 911 for emergencies, then follow five calls in order, with the numbers and what to say.
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HotlinesFree helplines for elder care, dementia, Medicare, fraud and crisis support.
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