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First steps when an aging parent needs help

When a parent starts to need more help, the hardest part is often knowing where to begin. These guides are arranged in the order most families need them: noticing the signs, deciding what to do first, having the conversations early, and knowing what to do if a health emergency arrives. Start with the step that matches where you are today.

By Mark Stiles, founder of The Boomer Guide · Last updated 29 October 2026 · Educational resources, not professional advice

An adult child's hand resting gently on an elderly parent's hand beside a cup of tea
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